Frequently Asked Questions

A bench that facilitates conversation between people who don’t know each other. 

Each bench has a permanently engraved message that says:

The “Happy to Chat” Bench
Sit solo if you’re up to talk.
Passing by? Join them for a chat!

The Happy To Chat Bench provides something almost nothing else does — a low pressure socially acceptable way to talk with new people.

People can use it when passing by or as a planned destination for social connection.

Benches are installed in public spaces such as parks, libraries, and schools, as well as private establishments.

Benches create social connection that helps alleviate loneliness, substantially improves health, bridges divides, and builds consensus and community.

It’s a timely issue – the U.S. is experiencing a social connection crisis.

“The decrease in social connection is a serious public health crisis and if not addressed we will further retreat to our corners — angry, sick and alone.” –U.S. Surgeon General, Dr. Vivek Murthy, 2023

A lack of social connection is as deadly as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.

Contrary to popular belief, research shows that talking with people you don’t know, not just friends and family, is necessary to fully benefit from connection.​

Anyone can request a bench — individuals, community organizations, business owners, or government entities.

If you would like to request a bench, simply contact us and we’ll get started on your request right away.

We provide Happy to Chat benches in the Continental United States.

Yes, my organization funds the full cost of the bench.